Hello everyone,
Let's talk about how important family support is in relationships, for a few minutes.
I was going through this phase where I really wanted to do something real badly, but my hubby was worried that what are people going to think. But he didn't really say yes or no, because he didn't want to hurt my feelings by saying no. By the way, both me and my husband's background is Pakistan and this happens a lot in Pakistan. People are really into other people's business, they want to know everything about everyone and they just need something to gossip about. I hate that.
Anyway, after a while when he didn't say anything, I figured there was something going on in his mind. After insisting a little, he said it. I smiled at his concern because he said it in the most cutest way possible, and said that we really shouldn't care about what people are going to say/think because
we are living for ourselves not for anyone else. No one is breathing for us, no one is feeding us, no one is doing anything for us, why should we care about what people have to think or say about what "I" want to do. If I really want to do something, why should they care, the only person who should care is you. I tried to make sense with him that as long as we have each other's backs, we're good to do whatever we want. We really shouldn't care about anyone. If something makes me happy, support me; and if something makes you happy, I'll be there for you no matter what. He is a very loving and understanding person, he said, "I'll be there for you, go ahead and do what makes you happy." It made me so happy that it is hard to put in words.
My whole point of this post is that I know there are people out there who like to gossip and who like to interfere in other people's lives. But, this should not impact or stop you from fulfilling your dreams. There is someone out there who cares about you, who cares about your happiness; go to that person, share your thoughts, share with them what you are feeling. There is always someone ready to support you, whether it'd be your parents, siblings, partner, friend, or whoever. DON'T EVER LET ANYTHING STOP YOU FROM PURSUING YOUR DREAMS. Go out there and conquer the world.
Cheers
Let's talk about how important family support is in relationships, for a few minutes.
I was going through this phase where I really wanted to do something real badly, but my hubby was worried that what are people going to think. But he didn't really say yes or no, because he didn't want to hurt my feelings by saying no. By the way, both me and my husband's background is Pakistan and this happens a lot in Pakistan. People are really into other people's business, they want to know everything about everyone and they just need something to gossip about. I hate that.
Anyway, after a while when he didn't say anything, I figured there was something going on in his mind. After insisting a little, he said it. I smiled at his concern because he said it in the most cutest way possible, and said that we really shouldn't care about what people are going to say/think because
we are living for ourselves not for anyone else. No one is breathing for us, no one is feeding us, no one is doing anything for us, why should we care about what people have to think or say about what "I" want to do. If I really want to do something, why should they care, the only person who should care is you. I tried to make sense with him that as long as we have each other's backs, we're good to do whatever we want. We really shouldn't care about anyone. If something makes me happy, support me; and if something makes you happy, I'll be there for you no matter what. He is a very loving and understanding person, he said, "I'll be there for you, go ahead and do what makes you happy." It made me so happy that it is hard to put in words.
My whole point of this post is that I know there are people out there who like to gossip and who like to interfere in other people's lives. But, this should not impact or stop you from fulfilling your dreams. There is someone out there who cares about you, who cares about your happiness; go to that person, share your thoughts, share with them what you are feeling. There is always someone ready to support you, whether it'd be your parents, siblings, partner, friend, or whoever. DON'T EVER LET ANYTHING STOP YOU FROM PURSUING YOUR DREAMS. Go out there and conquer the world.
Cheers
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